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@Adaydreambeliever That's not entirely true, but everyone has friends with benefits outside our household.

@PolyamorousPlaymates it so is true!! A woman can fork 10 men a day every day.. very few men can manage more than a couple of times a day at most.. and often only if spaced out during the day.. IMO the *natural* and only proper way is 1 woman to 10 men :P Unless.. you have women who have VERY low sex drives :P

I might be assuming here, but it seems you're focusing of self pleasure. It's true not all men can orgasm as frequently as women, bit plenty still can. That being said, a real man makes sure his partner is well satisfied before himself. And again after for extra measure. I won't claim to be an Adonis level lover, but I can (and have) thoroughly satisfied up to 8 different women multiple times in a single day. And that's just wome the sun was up.

I'm not saying you're wrong, but you're not exactly correct, either.

@PolyamorousPlaymates I am always right :P I was concentrating on mechanics.. women love to be fucked..as in penetration.. that's not necessarily connected to orgasms.. those can be separate which is what you were talking about.. I was fortunate to have met a lot of men who could go between 3-5 times without rest... that's cool..tho, even then, I could have happily gone a few more rounds lol few men can do that.. so even if the guy licks and tickles all the ladies.. and they don't mind not getting enough fucking.. it's still less than ideal in terms of mechanics... Love and feelings are often more important to women.. which, (alongside perhaps a less high libido?) they may be prepared to tolerate just one man and less forking.. I think to test this truly all the women there should have the chance of 10 men as opposed to being one of several women shared by one man..
I wonder if there's something in women settling for less

@Adaydreambeliever If we're talking mechanics, men just want to touch and be touched. And our sex drive depends on who we're with. We can't go more than one round with one person, but then someone else can give us the drive to go all day with few (if any) breaks.

I can't change your opinion and I'm not trying to. But dom's like this differ drastically from one individual to the next. There's also mental and emotional compatibility to consider. Just making it more difficult to really determine anything.

In short, one should love whoever they want without making things ugly or difficult for others.

@PolyamorousPlaymates lol there you go then.. we have admitted most men can't perform in the same way women can... a female professional lady can satisfy multi-clients a day... a male pro cannot satisfy nearly as many women.. men like to be touched.. and touch... yes... as above.

I do not deny that more usual is for women to settle for less sex.. I am never sure whether that's poor sex drive or conditioning to expect and accept less and/or that love is more important to many women than sex..

But I still maintain that in terms of ability to give and receive a good rogering.. women can take, (and often like!!!) a lot more than men can.. As I say ... only way to tell is for each of those ladies to have a few weeks with 10 men each.. see how they like that :P

Women often settle for less than they need.. and deserve

@Adaydreambeliever I get the feeling this is a feminist power-play thing.

It works both ways. If the woman isn't into the guy either, she's less likely to reach orgasm. Same as men.

@PolyamorousPlaymates ahh your feeling is incorrect - I speak from experience.. knowing that a fully fulfilled woman given the chance of 10 men she loves and who love her can satisfy ALL those men..

I am interested and curious about the set up with one man and several women.. I can only think they are less highly sexed, more willing to settle for getting less penetration... and/or just the fact women are raised often to put others needs before their own so settle for less than they deserve..

I am just off to bed now.. it was interesting hearing your thoughts.. I did wonder if in asking this question you kinda wanted to brag a little about how many women YOU have... and you anticipated lots of men wishing they were you.. I looked at it from a different perspective.. if I were one of those women.. what it means in cold hard terms is that unless I am bi, (which I am tho you never mentioned them enjoying each other which at least might balance things for them a bit) then what it means is.. EACH of those women are settling for less fucking.. less than their fair share..it's really not about orgasms... it's about that feeling of having a man inside you.. nothing beats that for many women.. but in your set up.. they get less than they should..

That's all x

@Adaydreambeliever Sa: No one settled. I love Jessica with all my heart and Arthur and Serena like the family they are. We all have lovers outside the household and to assume you know anything about us, our interests, or our love lives is the height of arrogance.