I Will Answer Anything You Ask

We* will answer anything you ask.

We're Arthur, Jessica, Serena, Sarah, Henry. A polyamorous household.

If you have questions for one of us, please indicate so. Other wise, we'll answer together.

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Pherick · 41-45, M

First, awesome for you folks for pulling it all off. My only real question is how much more communication does this take?

My previous relationships a good bit of time/effort was dedicated to communication, working out issues, etc. As you have to in any relationship, but then to multiply that by 4 or so. I feel like I might not do anything else :)

PolyamorousPlaymates · C

@Pherick We've got a board that helps with scheduling, if that's what you mean.

Pherick · 41-45, M

@PolyamorousPlaymates Well I meant more like, in a "normal" relationship, you have 1 on 1 talks and issues, but then in a relationship like yours, if B and C have a fight, do A and D get involved/take sides?

I just mean, I feel like 1 on 1 relationship can be difficult enough, I can't imagine how adding more people to the mix works! :)

PolyamorousPlaymates · C

@Pherick Oh. Well, fights rarely happen, actually. And once every month, we sit down and let out any issues we might have. General therapy session stuff. At first it was difficult, but eventually we all got comfortable with everyone and now any issues are resolved as soon as they come up.

Those monthly meetings then turned into family game/movie might.

Pherick · 41-45, M

@PolyamorousPlaymates Well thats very awesome to hear! Good for you all!