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Alright, let's go for it. No questions via PM. If you want to know, have the courage to ask in public. I'm a 44 year old male, married, pansexual, switch. That's probably enough to get some conversation rolling...

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Highonheels · 51-55, M

I have heard of pansexual and switch and have even looked them up but I still don’t really quite understand it , maybe you can better explain it to me

LookingForIt987 · 51-55, M

@Highonheels Hi, and sure. I can try.

Pansexual is very similar to bi. The biggest difference, I guess, is that "bi" implies (at least to some people) that there's two genders. Pansexual instead treats gender as a broader category - to include gender-fluid, trans*, and so forth. I'm sexually attracted to people all across the gender spectrum, so for me at least "pansexual" makes more sense and is a better fit.

A "switch" is a person who can be both dominate and submissive. For me specifically, I'm typically one or the other with a given person - but with that person I can also be "neutral".

Highonheels · 51-55, M

@LookingForIt987 ok thank you for that definition I’m not sure I’ve heard it put in those terms , that’s rather Interesting