I Think Shy Guys Are Adorable

As a former overly shy male ( speaking only for myself ) i believe calling shy people cute is extremely patronizing it’s far from adorable not knowing how to stand up for yourself , ask for what you want , or believing that you’re better off with your head down to avoid trouble .

That’s not cute , i mean if some people find some attractive qualities in it ok cool everyone’s different .

But i feel like it’s a form of enabling