I Think Shy Guys Are Adorable

Speak for yourself man because you don't speak for all shy men. I have the husband to prove it.

Thank you, may I have another. He wasn't so shy after all.

No, he is. I had to initiate the relationship. It does suck for shy people I bet but there are people out there that don't care. If they want you, they'll try to get you. lol

I'm proud of you for initiating your relationship. He's a lucky guy. I haven't been so lucky. All the women I tried to approach turned me down. The ones who were interested accepted other men because I never knew they were interested in me. If they had approached me though... But they were waiting for the man to initiate things. I approached all the wrong women and never any of the right ones. Its not like they wear signs or anything. So how was I supposed to know?

Yea I wouldn't have known either if our mutual friend hadn't told on him. lol Even when i knew and asked he was still didn't say anything. If you are really interested then you either go for it or wait.

Ever since I graduated from college, I haven't had any opportunities. Its been 15 yrs now and I'm middle aged. I feel Iike my life has been wasted. All Ive ever done is get an education and a job.

You can still always try. Life isn't over. If my 98ish year old great grandpa can find a woman then I'm sure a young man like you can as well. Not too late.

I attend powwows but I never meet anyone my age who is available. Strange thing is, young girls will approach me usually at powwows. I mean like 10 years old. They've even given me gifts. It bothers me really. One time I made sure her mom found out because she wouldn't stop following me around. I'm not about to be suspected of pedophilia, so it really bothers me. 15 years of online dating hasn't done me any good either. I've been trying but sheez... I'm getting sour. Before too long, I won't want to find anyone. I don't want all of my youth to have left me before finding someone. Thanks for the talk.

yea...that kid is creepy and no problem.