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AuRevoir · 36-40, M
When I was in my early to mid twenties I kept attracting 13 to 16 year olds.. I think that lasted from 23-28 for me so only about 5 years.. But yeah. A lot of those girls had that weird misunderstanding where they thought engaging with an older person meant they were more “Mature for their age”
I think younger girls who end up having fun in conversation end up having much stronger hopes for love. And when you explain to them that’s not how it works and they attempt to make persuasive arguments like “Well I’ve already dated a 35 year old” or “It’s not like I’d go around telling everyone we’re dating.” And you still have to explain to them that 35 year olds shouldn’t have been dating them in the first place or that even if the world doesn’t know, the one dating them would still know and therefore know it’s wrong.
I’m hoping that the whole Diddy and Epstein thing makes it to where there’s less girls that end up reaching those inaccurate conclusions that dating an older person would somehow make the romance more special.
Now I attract no one… Which is ironically a better alternative…
I think younger girls who end up having fun in conversation end up having much stronger hopes for love. And when you explain to them that’s not how it works and they attempt to make persuasive arguments like “Well I’ve already dated a 35 year old” or “It’s not like I’d go around telling everyone we’re dating.” And you still have to explain to them that 35 year olds shouldn’t have been dating them in the first place or that even if the world doesn’t know, the one dating them would still know and therefore know it’s wrong.
I’m hoping that the whole Diddy and Epstein thing makes it to where there’s less girls that end up reaching those inaccurate conclusions that dating an older person would somehow make the romance more special.
Now I attract no one… Which is ironically a better alternative…
