I think.. my mom is not the best of mil to my brothers wives

fyi I get along well with all of my sister in laws and because of that my mom would always tell me to "advise" my brothers wives because I get along well with them unlike her.. and if I where to disagree she would scold me saying that I'm a negative influence on the sister in law for not "talking " to them.
she has some extreme ideas, like I wouldn't advise my sister in law to lower their standards for my brothers, that's their problem if they can't handle the women they choose 😆
also, that's not my relationship with my sisterin law.
I'm here to get along not to create enemies.
I'm sure I'm not the right person to tell them how to live their lifestyle.

honestly IDC what she says because I don't listen to her with regards to this matter anyway.

I'm using nice words because she's my mom. 🤷🏻‍♀