A weird story. By me.

My boyfriend has ignored me for almost a month because he is moving . I am not dumb. I don't put my energy into anyone that vague and abrupt.
I was asked out on a date today but I won't go because we didn't technically break up and I feel bad .

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BlueGreenGrey · M

I don't understand, do you two live together and he is moving out, or you live separately and he is moving just from one local abode to another local abode.

I ask because if it is the former that would be more alarming, but either way, if he is truly not communicating, that's not right and you need to clarify whether you are officially over or not.

SpiritSkye

@BlueGreenGrey He doesn't live with me. I haven't seen him in a month.

BlueGreenGrey · M

@SpiritSkye well I can't imagine going a whole month without communicating with you, there doesn't seem to be any valid excuse for that if he is not in a coma, at the very least that is leaving you in limbo by not even knowing what your status is, but then again maybe that in itself is the answer, if he doesn't care enough to not leave you in limbo. I don't know what kind of trajectory you two were on before a month ago, maybe that also provides a clue, but it would be good to just confront him directly to either ask him if he has broken up with you, or for you to tell him that you are breaking up with him.