I wish there were men who would have

shown interest in knowing your soul rather than seeing or thinking about ur melons lol..

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Elisbch · M Best Comment

There are... unfortunately those men (and not all of them) are quite older and you would not be attracted to them. (dad or grandad) 😕
To me, a woman's spirit or soul is much more interesting than the flesh because she's who I might be interested in staying with.

SW-User

@Elisbch I haven't found anyone like that.

Elisbch · M

@SW-User.. When i was your age, I'm sure the women were saying the same thing. Men's hormones are too high as well as career and maybe just not ready to settle down. I know I was more or less this way. However I think there are men in the age group you would probably want to date that are what you're looking for. Be persistent in what you want and don't settle for less. I have to say I was kind of half and half. Half of what I said above and half of looking for someone I might like to settle down with.
I think you will find one like that. I think it will be frustrating but I think it'll happen. Sometimes finding the right person happens when you're least expecting it.

SW-User

@Elisbch Oh i didn't say it in the sense of finding a soulmate. But i was wishing there would have ppl interested in genuine convos. I lose interest when i feel the convo would only end up with sexting and next day ppl would ghost you. So i always run away from that

Elisbch · M

@SW-User .. Okay, I understand what you're saying. Yes, I have to agree with you. I can imagine that finding one that wants to pursue a decent conversation is difficult. It's too easy for them to behave anyway they want to with the anonymity.

WhyThooo · 31-35

@Elisbch Old dudes should get with ladies their own age if thats true.

Elisbch · M

@WhyThooo ... I can't disagree but if one has an honest intent, then old or young should be able to talk with any age woman. HOWEVER.... older has more in common with older. imho.

WhyThooo · 31-35

@Elisbch Indeed. And decent people know of the power imbalance in dating someone younger and more naive. I'm not saying it can never work, but I don't believe old men commonly go for young women because of their minds if you know what I mean.

SW-User

@WhyThooo Would there kiss be slippery? 🌚 thoo much wet..😂

Elisbch · M

@WhyThooo ... LOL.. again, I'd have to agree with you. Personally, I find it interesting sometimes to talk with someone younger because they see the world in a different light and different views and I find what they have to say very interesting and sometimes educational (and I'm talking about real subjects and not sex). Personally, I prefer a mate closer to what I think my age group would be.