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I feel dumb

I knew the answer, but in order to make conversation with someone yesterday who’s in the same business I am, I pretended to not understand something about my job.

“Would you say this is a leaning wall or mortar deterioration? I’m still filling out the paperwork. 😅”

I just wanted to make conversation and I didn’t know what else to talk about or how to talk about it without playing games. “How’s work?” always ends quickly and tends to be boring.

“Yeah, it’s deteriorating. And these people always trying to scam and say it’s wind damage. No it isn’t, but they’ll say it because they don’t want to pay. 😒”

I didn’t want it to be a conversation complaining about people on the job or negative tones. I didn’t know how to direct the conversation to, I don’t know, complain about bricks instead. Can’t we complain about bricks instead? 🥺

So I stood there awkwardly like I always do.
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Peterpaul17 · 36-40, M
1)I think the interior designer could have done more justice if they had 5 more years of experience

2)What do you think is better, the old architecture or the latest ones?

3) Don't you think we should be geotagging each house to make our transaction more faster?

4)It could have been painted well, you know with grey and white, they used to be my favourite color.
SW-User
@Peterpaul17 Maybe. But in moments when I want conversation, I don’t think of what it is I even want to talk about. That’s the dumb part. I had nothing to say to the person; I just wanted to talk to them. Then they gave me an opportunity to, and I just stood there.
Peterpaul17 · 36-40, M
@SW-User Always keep atleast 10 dialogues ready like

Hey Sexy Madonna

Hey, look at those cute birds Madonna

Last time i checked you got your little pizza, i hope this time you get the much deseving cake or will have to let you dine out with my friend. He is good at eating cakes.

Do you know even if birds may find nest in your hair, but you have the best hair i have ever seen . I have got one pegion, do you mind i bring it your home someday?

Hey, these days, these little kids, they have just outfashioned our sense of fashion.

Where do you think we are gonna live in next 50 years? Can you think of a new design of home?

Hey Global warming. Do you think people are doing enough about it? Don't you think melting of ice will make these water bottles cheaper?
Peterpaul17 · 36-40, M
@SW-User it is easy said than done but you will get many opportunities. Polish yourself and keeep doing so.
SW-User
@Peterpaul17 I’d never address someone like that. Sexy nothing. I don’t like that kind of talk and I wasn’t pursuing the person. I was just trying to have a conversation.
Peterpaul17 · 36-40, M
@SW-User i was just trying to flirt with you. You know that. Remove that sentence. 🙂
SW-User
@Peterpaul17 I don’t like flirting and I don’t want anyone trying that with me. Thanks for your advice anyway.
Peterpaul17 · 36-40, M
@SW-User How to make this girl believe that it was just for fun. Was kust an example. I take my statement back. You are too good to be lost as a friend this time.

Please don't misunderstand me 😂