I Just want to vent h🦻 a little bit

Just because you want me to do something and you tell me to do that very thing...does...not...mean that i will do, what you think that I should be doing....the funny thing to me is....that you seem to get surprised when I don't "do" what you think it is that you told me to do has not been done...when in fact, I said that I would never do that very thing, under any circumstance.
What
is
So
confusing ?
🤔