ADDB: I don't think the men who ask this question are concerned with reality. Before the internet, there was Penthouse Forum. A graphic Harlequin Romance for the erotically minded.lol! Did the pizza delivery guy really do that to Mrs. Jones when her husband's back was turned? Probably not, but how many of us have danced in the waves unfurling on the sandy shores of the beach while the stars winked at us, and the man in the moon turned his head and blushed, while we were blinded by the stars in each others eyes as the night birds sang our song? Welcome to fantasy island. Hang your hangups and your inhibitions at the door, and imagine away. :)