@SW-User Ah, you've described something I do deliberately, quite a lot; trying to see the different sides of an issue. I like to believe I'm engaging in 'critical thinking' but I'm familiar with the 'sitting on the fence' accusation. I think to myself 'That's your fence, pal. I don't have one.' Trying for open mindedness is such a habit with me that when someone voices an one-sided opinion I'm liable to come out with an opposite one, almost automatically. In general that's not helpful :).