I Have Questions For anyone married or not- What does marriage mean to you? Has it taken on a...

Beowulf · 36-40, M

So who is happily married ？ people say marriage is like a wall, those who are still not married want to come in while the married ones want to come out. What's the point in that.

Spoiledbrat · F

I comprimise more than I thought I would. I didn't realize just how much.

SW-User

I'm sorry to hear that boo boo ....you could try reasoning with her ...I know I've changed in many ways ,.. My husband has too .. I think communication within a marriage is very important . Understanding where each other is coming from is key . It's never easy but it's a must in order to make things work .

booboo · M

@cher: when one changes for the worst, then what? One changes and becomes more mellow, easier going, non judgemental, non critical, where the other one goes in the complete opposite direction... :/

booboo · M

it has definitely changed for me...going on 41 years...it was great at first, but these last few years have been horrible..I've very unhappy, but too late to do anything about it now

SW-User

People and circumstances change . You change together . Things just change . That's life ,that's marriage ...you get through it ...if you both want to

TheLoveAge · 36-40, F

Booboo- If you're unhappy then don't ignore that. You deserve to be happy and don't need to put up with circumstances that are keeping you down.
Have you tried therapy or talked to others about it? I'm sure you've had your share with talking to your spouse. But aside from that what's changed and what do you feel doesn't fit in your life anymore? More with you ? What do you really want now? I'd think about these for a while and see what you'd come up with. Either case you should be happy.
I wish you all the best!! Sending lots of love to ya!💕💕💕💕