I Have Questions

I comprimise more than I thought I would. I didn't realize just how much.

I'm sorry to hear that boo boo ....you could try reasoning with her ...I know I've changed in many ways ,.. My husband has too .. I think communication within a marriage is very important . Understanding where each other is coming from is key . It's never easy but it's a must in order to make things work .

@cher: when one changes for the worst, then what? One changes and becomes more mellow, easier going, non judgemental, non critical, where the other one goes in the complete opposite direction... :/

So who is happily married ？ people say marriage is like a wall, those who are still not married want to come in while the married ones want to come out. What's the point in that.

People and circumstances change . You change together . Things just change . That's life ,that's marriage ...you get through it ...if you both want to

it has definitely changed for me...going on 41 years...it was great at first, but these last few years have been horrible..I've very unhappy, but too late to do anything about it now

Booboo- If you're unhappy then don't ignore that. You deserve to be happy and don't need to put up with circumstances that are keeping you down.
Have you tried therapy or talked to others about it? I'm sure you've had your share with talking to your spouse. But aside from that what's changed and what do you feel doesn't fit in your life anymore? More with you ? What do you really want now? I'd think about these for a while and see what you'd come up with. Either case you should be happy.
I wish you all the best!! Sending lots of love to ya!💕💕💕💕

Now it merely means mirage coz of the realization of the bigger picture.

You are welcome!

@cher: I agree, but communication only works when it's directed my way..oh well..it's my cross to bear...

@cher: not holding my breath though..thank you for your kindness

it is a sacred union of two individuals to pursue duty, possessions, karma and moksha.

*quietly exits*

Bingo.

Marriage is like entering the front door but would rather leave through the backdoor. At least that's how I believe.

Not married yet. i'm still prefer to be single currently...

😕

Booboo- cute name btw😊

I hope it all works out for you booboo

Absolutely. I hate everybody.