I Have Questions

How is it that you slip up just once and you're marked for life? Or you just happen to make one false move and everyone's mother is up your ascot dishing out judgments? Does it ever feel like you're never heard about until you make a mistake but when you do good things you're not recognized for them? It's bs right? I know I'm bitching but it gets old. Pffft!! Ok, I'm done now, lol. And I'm grateful because it could be worse.... Ok so any related stories?

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TheLoveAge · 36-40, F

Aidolove- I usually don't care, it's just they assume I'm one way because of the result of some actions without knowing the root cause of it. And then almost being talked to like a child non the less... They have no idea...I usually hold steady and cool when confronted with things like this, I can handle it pretty good. It's just that was a foul shot all I have to say. I know overall they where well meaning, but the message was assumptive. Pissed me off a bit. They don't know where I've been and what I'm doing, like I said, they've only seen aftermath w/o cause.

You know it cracks me up when they said, "Now do what I told you"... NOTHING makes me cringe than those kinds of statements... Mentally I slapped the shit out of them but I kept my cool, I remained respectful, lol.

Well said, and that's a great way to live. Hold firm on that conviction.