I Have Questions

Aidolove- I partially said what I needed. I was going to go off on the deep end if it wasn't for others entering the room. I didn't want to make a scene, and it was supposed to be a 'peaceful' gathering. And to be honest I probably wouldn't had the right approach about it. The words would've been overcome by anguish and it would've been a lot worse. Like I said I know they meant well, but the delivery was just off.

It just pisses me off they would undermine what I have done. They didn't even listen to me. No one sees the progress they just see what's 'not right' and tell you their two cents. I don't mind constructive criticism, In fact, I welcome it. I don't always know what I'm doing or have the direction I need to pursue things in my life, but I've always done my best in the conditions I've grown up in.

All I have left to say is judge accordingly and don't assume by what you think you see because it's not always the case. It's what I've wanted to say if I'd been thinking clearly...

That last part wasn't for you, just wanted to say that. If I do see them again would it be a moot point bring it up you think? I was thinking if it still bothered me then I should. And I wouldn't care what their thoughts were or if they thought I was making it a bigger issue, because I know it would've been therapeutic for me to have released that.

Ok, I'm done. It's where it's at I'm a let it go. I just wish I had these words right then and there, practice and with time I guess...

Thank you by the way💕

It is why I don't care too deeply about what people say about me. Sure it hurts a little but I would want to ask them how they'd have done in my shoes. Or whether they've not done anything that they're not proud of.
People are hypocrites and I take their judgement of me with a huge pinch of salt. And I live my life according to my principles and morals.

Aidolove- I usually don't care, it's just they assume I'm one way because of the result of some actions without knowing the root cause of it. And then almost being talked to like a child non the less... They have no idea...I usually hold steady and cool when confronted with things like this, I can handle it pretty good. It's just that was a foul shot all I have to say. I know overall they where well meaning, but the message was assumptive. Pissed me off a bit. They don't know where I've been and what I'm doing, like I said, they've only seen aftermath w/o cause.

You know it cracks me up when they said, "Now do what I told you"... NOTHING makes me cringe than those kinds of statements... Mentally I slapped the shit out of them but I kept my cool, I remained respectful, lol.

Well said, and that's a great way to live. Hold firm on that conviction.

No don't bring it up when they've forgotten about it and you still get bothered with it. Best time to do it is when they are on attack.

You be good alright? :)

I love you too my dear. I'll always listen, you'll always know where to find me. :)

TheLoveAge - you are made of very strong stuff. And I know, even then these things can really prick us.
Why don't you some day bring out your mind on the table when you are being questioned or told off? What is the worst they will say? She has a mouth on her? They'll never be presumptive about you to your face again and never treat you like a child. Just a thought.

Aidolove- I love you, thanks for listening. I'll be alright. ☺

TheLoveAge - :) I hope you're feeling better.

Thanks Aidolove 🤗 You're very kind.