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Slavem · 70-79, M
BDSM usually starts with people in their 30s and they’re more sexually mature and truthfully do not want to play with inexperienced people in their 20s. The sawdust female dominant has to not get too carried away, and the slave has to give his total admittance to be whipped or taken advantage of. There’s a certain percentage of dominant women that enjoy dominating men and are very skilled at it, but the male slave has to give his permission.
boklenholley7 · F
Generally, those communities are very tight knit and protect their people. And new people. If you're trying to solo things and find someone without the protection of a community, you're probably at more of risk, but I imagine traffickers want the widest net to 'catch' as many victims as possible. So it would make more sense to be more general to get more people interested. Not more specific.
Nobody message me I'm not interested.
Nobody message me I'm not interested.
legendaryssjgsskaiokenevolved · 26-30, M
@boklenholley7 well FetLife is a thing and I do have an account there, but I'm aware there's a lot of scammers
boklenholley7 · F
@legendaryssjgsskaiokenevolved Haha true. And being a chick on fet is sketchy af. I'm sure it's mostly OF scammers coming after the dudes. You're probably at less of a risk trying to solo as a dude. Getting into a community is the safest, but it's hard if you're not near a bigger town/city. And ofc being a single dude makes it much harder. Good luck.



