would you buy your grave yourself before you died?

Yes. My grandmother did. She used to go the gravesite with me as a child, and we'd visit the graves of her parents and an uncle and aunt of mine who died before her. She did that for a whole decade. At the end she got a carriage drawn by horses. Everything. Even a flag bearer from the resistance groups was present.The row of mourners going on foot from the church onwards was so long that center of town was blocked for a full hour.

Nope, i plan on being cremated

just before our divorce gave my ex a coffin for his birthday. bastard still hasn't used it

It won't get any cheaper.

I'm going to buy my cremation before I croak - and I better get on it

When I go I hope I’m mostly red mist lol

Graves are a luxury. Cremate me, throw my ashes in a midden heap for all I care. I won't be around to be offended.

We don't have grave. We burn the bodies to the ashes ⚱

No but I have dug my own grave

I suppose that the logic is that that it’s less for your loved ones to have to think about x