I’m looking for a hole to crawl in today.

When coffee finished brewing I brought my wife a cup and cinnamon roll for her to enjoy in bed. She asked me, “What are your dreams?”. I said, “No dreams, just nightmares”. Now she’s crying because she thinks it’s her fault because of her poor health and failing memory. I really need to think before speaking.

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Keepitsimple · 56-60, F

That was a deep question though Sage, lol. Maybe she should have asked what you want for lunch. 😉

SageWanderer · 70-79, M

@Keepitsimple Trying to do damage control now. And might have to cook a special dinner tonight.

SmartKat · 61-69, F

Hey, don’t beat yourself up. I’m sure you’re doing the best you can.

SageWanderer · 70-79, M

@SmartKat I try but do get frustrated and really spoke before thinking this morning.

Elevatorpitches · F

Good lessson, right?

OogieBoogie · F

Or...

she needs to stop judging and keep talking.

By doing twhat- sjes actually placing emotional guilt on you.

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OogieBoogie · F

@SageWanderer we've been thru this conversation before.

And it's still the same statis quo as it was years ago .

If you want change....you have to make it .

SageWanderer · 70-79, M

@OogieBoogie Yes and Covid has put a damper on that but trying to be patient and hope for the future. Today was just one of those days.

OogieBoogie · F

@SageWanderer DUDE..you are just way too kind to others...

...and never to YOURESELF .
💜

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