Were you more kind when you were younger than you are now? Or are you getting more kind with age?
61-69, F
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Adogslife · 61-69, M
Absolutely not. I was an ass when I was younger, oozing with confidence, yet I’d proven nothing in the larger scheme of things. I was driven. If someone asked me what kindness was, it might of stopped me in my tracks.
Now, the opposite is true. I’m extremely kind. I’m still very driven, but it’s not self centered. I love people, helping, teaching and being charitable.
I owe ALL of that to the women in my life. Women are great teachers. They are the ones that have added substance and depth to my life. That’s what now helps me to be so centered, calm and kind. It’s all about great women and age. There’s no better substitute.
Now, the opposite is true. I’m extremely kind. I’m still very driven, but it’s not self centered. I love people, helping, teaching and being charitable.
I owe ALL of that to the women in my life. Women are great teachers. They are the ones that have added substance and depth to my life. That’s what now helps me to be so centered, calm and kind. It’s all about great women and age. There’s no better substitute.
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@Adogslife I have always appreciated your attitude and positivity - your kindness to me - from the moment we spoke while both watching that same home improvement/renovation show. Lol. You come across as kind and easy-going, and now that it has been years, I can see it is the real deal and not an act. Don't ever change or let life strip you of that genuine-ness. The world needs more of your kind. ❤