Does the promise still stand? Years ago a customer at my work did a very generous, kind thing...

daydeeo · 61-69, M

I disagree. If telling it would honor her memory, do it.
She's no longer here to be embarrassed by it, so it's fine.
She was very humble and modest in life, she should be honored for that.

jackieash27

I get the point that once a promise is made it is for good. On the other hand, it would be paying a tribute to the lady's kind nature. Maybe if you just made a general comment like "She once did something nice for me" and leave it at that.

matthewjames · 18-21, M

no you made a promise so hav to keep it

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

It is obviously weighing heavily on your mind , & with good reason & intention. You say she was a lovely person, so i'm pretty certain now that shes gone , would not wish you to remain conflicted like you are.

So yes i think you ought to unburden your thoughts . By all accounts it seems as though she did a wonderful thing.

Justafantasy · M

No, it was a promise. You can say what a great and kind lady she was. You can pat her back, you can say things about her helping you. What she actually did doesn't matter much so why mention it now?

nudistsueaz · 61-69, F

A promise is a promise, then, now and forever.

Quimliqer · 70-79, M

They go to the grave with us…

SomeMichGuy · M

I think honoring her life & character by telling it now is ok.😊

Bang5luts · M

Yes the promise still stands in my opinion.but tbh that is truly for you to decide

NinaTina · 26-30, F

No she made you promise for a reason and if told may hurt others keep it and write it down and put away in your keepsakes. And when you die it can be told