How long do you let a 9yo change by themselves in a changing room before you knock and ask if they’re still alive? 😬

If you asked my mom she'd say 30 seconds before she'd force her way in to "help"

If I'm at a dance comp and I'm waiting for one of my students though I'd usually say like 5 minutes before checking in because straps, buttons, laces are hard even for me 😅