Not condoning this but

People who are singled out in real life and social media because they dont look like they 'fit in' is what drives many (mostly men) to the dark side of the internet ( far right, incel etc) or religous extremism going on to harm (mostly fatal) others.

People really need to start treating humans as just that, human. As a collective and not just because they look attractive or worthy in a 'superficial way'

I have been treated like shit on and offline for many years since 2010 but i wont let society drive me into these fringe groups online. Where i go onto to ruin my life and others. Innocent people.

If you bully, ignore and ridicule people just because they dont look likr they fit your superficial standards, youre an arsehole. Treat everyone equal and dont be the cause of driving people into insanity.

Yeah, the truth hurts doesnt it?

Needs to be said and im not afraid to say it.

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Graylight · 51-55, F

It begins with a shift in perception. Those who value themselves, conduct themselves, believe certain things about themselves, feel victimized and helpless and are dependent on the outside world working on them for these things, they will always feel as though they can't get the upper hand. When all those things are generated from within, who you are and how you feel will never vary much regardless of the world around you. You live in a gimbal, so to speak.

Life happens, Hard lessons come to everyone. Everyone acts well, acts badly, is acted upon. These are not adverse experiences; they are life.

Everyone could be nicer to everyone else, no question about that. But retreating into isolation is a choice, not a result.