Not condoning this but

People who are singled out in real life and social media because they dont look like they 'fit in' is what drives many (mostly men) to the dark side of the internet ( far right, incel etc) or religous extremism going on to harm (mostly fatal) others.

People really need to start treating humans as just that, human. As a collective and not just because they look attractive or worthy in a 'superficial way'

I have been treated like shit on and offline for many years since 2010 but i wont let society drive me into these fringe groups online. Where i go onto to ruin my life and others. Innocent people.

If you bully, ignore and ridicule people just because they dont look likr they fit your superficial standards, youre an arsehole. Treat everyone equal and dont be the cause of driving people into insanity.

Yeah, the truth hurts doesnt it?

Needs to be said and im not afraid to say it.

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Carissimi · F

Although I agree with you, it’s impossible to treat everyone the same, or equally. It’s human nature to be attracted to those we find interesting, for whatever reason. People can’t find everyone interesting. It’s a like attracts like kind of thing. That leaves some on the margins, unfortunately. I’d also argue that some on the margins are carrying an attitude, probably because they don’t fit in, but that also detracts from their appeal. The thing is to be with people more like yourself, if you can find them.

Vector · 41-45, M

@Carissimi i dont mean to carry an attitude in my post. Im sorry if i did but im just frustrated. Life online iver the years has jyst gone worse.im ignored ecerywhere. Interpals, here, fb,instagram. And life offline is harder to interact is harder because im not into reality tv or series.

Vector · 41-45, M

I call it a day and spend many months offline, jyst game and watch movies, some stuff i like, read abd lusten to music. Everytime i feek recharged, i give this another go snd find nothing changes. It gets worse.

Vector · 41-45, M

@Carissimi shoukd i just accept my own reality and destiny and carry on doing what i was? I lived like it was the 90s with hardly any internet but mentally i was better and happier

Carissimi · F

I never picked up an attitude from your post. I was making a general statement about some that develop an attitude because of their life experiences. Me being one of them.

You say that you give it another go, and nothing changes. What do you mean? What changes are you looking for? What is it you want? @Vector

Vector · 41-45, M

@Carissimi just acceptance.where my posts are liked and people talk to me. They do with others and not me.

Carissimi · F

I think we should all accept our reality. That doesn’t mean we can’t improve some things we don’t like. Nothing is guaranteed, but maybe we can improve some things in our life, one step at a time. @Vector

Vector · 41-45, M

@Carissimi perhaps i dont have things to offer people here. They want memes and humour etc perhaps i need to realize tgat me and people onkine arevery diffetent creatures. Not thats a bad thing, rather more of a fact.

Carissimi · F

Are you more of a serious kind of person, more introvert? If so, don’t change. You are who you are, so embrace your uniqueness. Don’t try to fit in. That just makes things worse. Don’t measure yourself by this site. You’ll find people respond to females more because of the obvious, and I’d guess there are many people here who feel like you, so you are not an anomaly. @Vector

Vector · 41-45, M

@Carissimi no i wont change.i never will. Thank you 🙂