Looking at this from a different angle, any woman who doesnt have her own money is stuck with a guy who abuses her, because she doesnt have the resources to leave. (particularly if there are kids in the picture.) My wife always had her nursing career and worked except though the child bearing and raising years and even then took some courses to upskill. Then went back into part time and later full time work. We not only had our own money. But our own separate bank accounts..With never an argument over who paid what..If you are working as a team, it really shouldnt be a problem..😷

... And good dads do matter. But sorry dude, you got this one completely backwards.

When women with homes & children work most of what they make goes to the family, even though on average we earn just 76 cents for every dolllar paid to working men :

um....no. my mom was the money manager growing up

Not true.
Show me a man who's wife handles the finances, and I'll show you a man with 5 times more than the other guy.

I have seen that female strategy in action several times. 🙁

My Dad? No. He can divorce the family! He can let us be homeless and brag about his riches. It's a meritocracy!

In this house I wear the pants, the wife wears the pockets.

I'm sure you have the studies to prove this?

Source: someone I trust who has an anonymous account in SW

Goes both ways

Are you playing the backwards game right now? 🤨

Excuse me, your incel is hanging out. You may want to tuck that back in.

You sound like you come from a very dysfunctional family sree251, because you are obviously projecting your own family's experiences to us here.