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Picklebobble2 They don't get to decide what they are today and be defined by that forevermore, which is what this post implies
If you inferred that then you are mistaken. It is certainly not the implication. We're not talking about making life long decisions of any kind here. We're talking about not sending home information that could put the child at risk.
All i'm suggesting is that school should be a safe space for youngsters to be who they feel they want to be without all the expectation or fear from anybody else in their community
For sure. I agree. And part of that feeling of safety might be feeling safe to say they identify as a different gender. Should that be violated by telling parents that John likes to be Called Joanne at school?
Because as you point out:
the sheer terror many children must feel if they think their sexuality has potential repercussions if those close to you knew about it.
That's exactly the sort of thing i'm talking about here. Protect kids from that. Let them feel safe at school in their identity even and especially if they don't feel safe expressing it at home.
Let kids be kids.