Women have all the control when it comes to becoming a parent. Should men have the right to opt out of parental responsibility?

Good question!

Men and women are equally responsible for everything they do and say, including sex, childbirth, raising kids, under God and under the law in most Judeo/Christian based countries. But some prefer to not take responsibility for their actions (nothing new about that so pick your mate carefully I say.) And some couples agree to just have a donor with limited rights.

But if the birthfather can be proven, then a child support order can be gained. (usually both incomes divided by half is given to the custodial parent monthly for support.) And if they refuse to pay a letter to the child support agency in that county is all that is needed most often for the arrearages to be ordered. Then a garnishment of wages, taxes, social security and retirement money is garnished including interest, until it's all paid. In California a professional board license can be suspended from a mate who has an order and is not paying.