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Do you have someone on the opposite side of the political divide whom you honestly like?

I mean, someone whose politics are the ONLY thing you don’t like about them.

I have a few, some in my own family.

I’m often tempted to say, “Let’s not talk about politics. I want to keep on liking you.” Or maybe, “I love you, but you’re wrong about everything.”
jim44444 · 70-79, M
Sure, but we never engage in personal attacks or name calling. Challenge the policies, cite the facts, debate the priorities but never disrespect each other.

The humurous part of our differences is that the conservatives agree that Trump is an asshole.
Loretta78 · 46-50, F
@jim44444 😆 lol
Rutterman · 46-50, M
Yes, there are a few. We mostly don't talk about politics, though. And it's really not necessary as we have plenty of things in common that we can talk about.
Loretta78 · 46-50, F
Yes, I have.
We are friends since 4 years, and because politics is the only thing we disagree so we don't talk about it. 🙂
Carissimi · 70-79, F
@Loretta78 It’s the best way, if you like the person.
Burnley123 · 41-45, M
Yes a few. I have a couple of kind if friends who are really right wing and we talk politics. We give each other shit but it's friendly banter and there is mutual respect. They are wrong about everything but it's not their fault. 😜

The one friendship I ever lost to politics was with a centrist. He criticised me relentlessly on social media for my views but when I returned the favour he demanded an apology which I did not give and then blocked me. I don't miss him Tbf.
SwampFlower · 31-35, F
I can respect any informed opinion that isn't hateful. There are plenty of really smart people out there with whom I disagree.

Once someone gets aggressive or unreasonable, I avoid the topic forevermore.

But to answer your actual question, yes I know people like that.
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
Yes, my dad. I love him, but November 2016 caused a rift between us.
CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F
@Just4fun And they get so angry so quickly, what is that?
Just4fun · 51-55, M
@CoffeeFirst that the part I don’t understand either. I think it’s because trump has masterfully got them at an emotional level.
CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F
@Just4fun I think you are right. Has happened with total strangers to us--they escalate for no reason and they are the ones who brought it up.
Northerner · 70-79, M
Yes I have several so called friends that I am growing to hate because of their political views.
Carissimi · 70-79, F
@Northerner Isn’t that sad? I really don’t think this great divide can be healed. The best way is to not talk politics with those you like, or love, to keep some peace.
I haven’t made friends in my new city (I’ve been here for 4.5-years) because most are staunch Leftists, and I’m a conservative. Once they know this, I don’t get invited back. It’s a shame people can no longer agree to disagree.
Northerner · 70-79, M
@Carissimi It is exactly the same for me. It is very hard to have a conversation without mentioning politics. We are on the same side by the way.lol
Carissimi · 70-79, F
@Northerner Nice to know. 😊
Poppies · 61-69, F
Yes, there are a couple like that. I decided it is worth preserving the relationship, banishing political discussion and waiting for better days!
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
Never discuss politics or religion with those you like.
Loretta78 · 46-50, F
@Picklebobble2 👍️
CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F
Yes, my mom, sister and her fam, and my work buddy. SMH...
Heartlander · 80-89, M
Yes!!

Dozens!

Amazing that regardless of political leanings, whether left or right, we all pretty much share the same conclusion. We want a safe world with less bloodshed and suffering and more joy and happiness, a world where everyone has a chance to succeed, to get medical help, to have money and freedom, and food to eat, and dignity .... but where we differ is on the "how to" part.

We have good friends who once though John Edwards was a man destined to save America from itself, and his devotion to Elizabeth was living proof of his goodness. I thought he was a jackass and a fraud.

When Edwards finally outed himself to the overwhelming majority that he was indeed a fraud and a jackass, I took the high ground and refrained from ever mentioning the name, John Edwards, to my friends again :)
Carissimi · 70-79, F
Yes...you. 🤗
SmartKat · 56-60, F
@Carissimi Likewise! 🤗
Carissimi · 70-79, F
@SmartKat 😊
marybmom · 41-45, F
there is no area of my life i need all of my friends to agree with that is why i have several friends some i can discuss politics with some i don't a friendship is not that strong if any one issue can end it
Piper · 61-69, F
Yes, there are some people even in this current political divide that I can honestly say I like. Not always because that is the [i]only[/i] thing I don't like about them, but because there more things about them that I DO like.
MartinII · 70-79, M
I have lots. Since I live in a part of London that is populated almost entirely by right-on leftists, I would have few friends if I didn’t!
SameSame · 22-25, F
Hard to say, since I have mostly moderate political beliefs. Among the people I know who pay attention to politics, most are big supporters of either Bernie Sanders or Donald Trump, depending on the person. I don't know many people who like Hillary Clinton or any of the other Republicans who ran for president against Trump in 2016.
diablesse · 56-60, F
Something I can definitely relate to.
SW-User
Yeah,I do ask not to talk polticics.
pknein · 46-50, M
most of my family unfortunately
Only a couple. And they’re not Trump supporters. That would be a dealbreaker to me.
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
@SmartKat So what do you think of McKinley Freeman & Would You Do Him
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
@SmartKat Nice So What do you think Of Jasmes Scott And Would You Do Him
SmartKat · 56-60, F
@JohnOinger If you mean this guy - if we were both single, probably yes. He’s cute! And British, ha ha.

JohnOinger · 41-45, M
@SmartKat nice
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
I get along with Both Liberals & Conservatives
Hmmm you must be conservative.
SmartKat · 56-60, F
@Quoththeraven 😂😂😂
NudasPriest · 46-50, M
I think so, but I've not dared ask.
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