Amazing how often it’s just to be left alone. 🙄

Of course there is. Girl, you are an absolute angel. 🤍 I don’t even know you personally, but I can tell. No one is as wholesome and sweet as you are without being but.

Sadly, there are those who would take advantage of that. Especially among men. I know not all men are bad, but a man who actually calls the cops over something as a woman not texting him back is no man at all. Same goes for the one who’d show up to your house unannounced. Those are pitigil little boys who peaked as teenagers. I’ve always said what separates the men from the boys is how they treat women.

My advice: be super picky with any potential boyfriend material you may come across. You’ve earned it.

Men stop maturing emotionally when they start masturbating. Or at least it stunts their growth. The more I look at modernity and its people the more misanthropic I become. People can be beautiful, crazy and wonderful too. Every once in awhile you can find a diamond in the compost bin of humanity. It’s just that you have to dig deeper and get dirtier than one would like.

I sometimes think it’s the worst it’s ever been right now. Then I think of the ignorance of the past and know intuitively that’s not the case. I think now maybe it’s more laziness and willful ignorance that make things seem so bleak.

I regret you had these experiences with these individuals. I hope you eventually find not only what you’re looking for but also what you need

I have known more than one couple for years. I have seen the man admit they fight like cats and dogs. He says he loves her but she’s just so bitter and controlling. She screams when he said he’d be home for dinner but stumbles in drunk at 4 am. Repeatedly.

Then their kids grow up and out of a clear blue sky, he comes home to no wife. And he can’t think why. “I thought we were good.”

I’m not saying wives are angels, but most of the time they know they’re in a bad marriage.

One couple I knew for twenty years. They had 4 teenagers. The husband had not worked for 8 years. She was the deli manager at a supermarket. She kept an enormous vegetable garden and canned hundreds of jars of vegetables and fruits every year. He cheated and drank on her dime and got drunk close to every day. Then she learned he was having an affair with a 20 year old who was their daughter’s roommate. For the only time I saw, she lost it. She stopped at our house on her way to a reckoning and I at least persuaded her to leave the shotgun with me.

She went to her daughter’s place and dragged the girl out by her hair and slapped her silly. Then she went home to find him passed out drunk in his truck. She was 5’1” and he was 6’ tall. She proceeded to pound him around the yard for quite a while.

The NEXT day, he sat at the table in our kitchen, with black eyes, a broken nose, and a host of scratches and bruises and said, “I never knew she loved me that much.”

And they say WOMEN are hard to understand.

What complex part of “I don’t want to see you anymore” is incomprehensible?