LeatherMama · 31-35, F
Talking to his aide sounds like the best out of the two options. Skipping ahead with the teacher might seem avoidant and creating a potentially bigger deal than necessary.
Barefooter25 · 46-50, M
I would talk to the aide directly about this.
KcRoyalsfan · 41-45, C
@Barefooter25 thankfully, the aid must have realized what he did what was wrong, because he brought Link a whole packet of candy and apologized to himb efore I had a chance to say anything.
You know where I stand on this. Im so sorry y this happened to that seeet little boy. 🤗 Joel xx
KcRoyalsfan · 41-45, C
@MyMonstersAreReal thank you
I’d just casually mention it to his aide, something along the lines of, “Link was really looking forward to having XYZ candy with his lunch so was kinda disappointed that you ate it and didn’t ask him first.”
Then you can let Link know that you talked to his aide and hopefully it won’t happen again. Maybe even let him know that he can nicely stand up for himself- if you feel that’s something he can do if encouraged.
Then you can let Link know that you talked to his aide and hopefully it won’t happen again. Maybe even let him know that he can nicely stand up for himself- if you feel that’s something he can do if encouraged.
KcRoyalsfan · 41-45, C
@OlderSometimesWiser we've been working on it for a while but he always shuts down and gets quite when something like this happens.
@KcRoyalsfan It’s a work in progress, like so many things in life. Just keep encouraging him. Look how far he’s come with wearing that device that helps with his walking! He’s capable of great things with the love and support of his family. 🙂
KcRoyalsfan · 41-45, C
@OlderSometimesWiser yes we're so proud, his grades are good, he has a school girlfriend, friends and is engaging with his classmates during free time. He didn't do any of these things a few years ago
Baybreeze · 41-45, F
I would email or text him ..only because it's VERYYY hard for me to bring up anything of confrontation with anyone. Say, "we truly appreciate you a lot, but just for future, Do you mind running it by Link first /check with him about his snacks ..(on this case his candy) . Perhaps you needed something quick, however he really looked forward to his fun treat. I appreciate it and ty for what you do for him"
KcRoyalsfan · 41-45, C
@Baybreeze i think this is what i will probably do
Gibbon · 70-79, M
You don't want my answer.
I'd pull him aside and say, hey dude, buy your own candy. Leave the kids alone.
I'd pull him aside and say, hey dude, buy your own candy. Leave the kids alone.
KcRoyalsfan · 41-45, C
@Gibbon I am not happy about it at all. I know if he just asked him he would have shared the candy but to just take it right out of his lunchbox. And since hes an adult link felt like he couldn't say anything to him.
Gibbon · 70-79, M
@KcRoyalsfan he's in a position. He should know the effects his actions could have. That's the sad part.
KcRoyalsfan · 41-45, C
@Gibbon that's what I'm struggling with. He's been his aid for a few years and has never done anything like this before. And other than this issue He's been amazing with him
KcRoyalsfan · 41-45, C
Update. His aid most have realized what he did was wrong and that he really hurt Link. Because when we got to school the next day, he had a pack of chocolate shaped pumpkins filled with marshmallows. He told him how sorry he was. And of course Link instantly forgave him. I'm glad that he realized what he did was it right. And I didn't have to talk to him about it
GoFish ·
idk but the aid shouldn't be taking the kid's candy especially not without permission
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GoFish ·
@KcRoyalsfan sorry.. i have tons of candy i actually spent probably 120$ on candy last month 😳 crazy prices these days
KcRoyalsfan · 41-45, C
@GoFish it's so crazy how much a bag of candy cost nowadays
GoFish ·
@KcRoyalsfan yeah like 10-20$+ 😳
i ate like 6 bags pre halloween then bought idk how many bags the day of because i was out already lol
i ate like 6 bags pre halloween then bought idk how many bags the day of because i was out already lol







