A big ole booty!

A friend who I can share life with to the full. Whose femininity enriches my masculinity.

I had that at twenty, and have that now. Different women.

More than any would be willing to give, and yes, my standards have actually gone up with time.

my penis.. and nope...

I’m honestly reevaluating that and yes it’s changed over time

just be herself

It hasn't really changed.
A partner.
A companion.
Someone that can lean on me, and someone that I can lean on.
I'm doubtful that I will ever have what I am looking for.

Decency, honour. I expect her to do the right thing instead of taking the path of least resistance. That part changed over time; I never realized how important and how rare it was.
Dignity and self-respect have always been attractive

I want someone that likes me, has a nice smile, is trustworthy, kind to animals. Despises Trump and MAGA. Doesn't smoke or do drugs. Has some high level skills, like cooking, art, writing.. something that makes them happy.
Loves to cuddle, but also likes to be left alone.
Strong willed, but able to compromise.
Helpful, strong, athletic, small chested.
Hmm.. lots of things.

Probably easier to say what I don't like.
She cannot be totally gorgeous, that is way too much to deal with.
Smoking, drugs, lazy.. goodbye