Why do guys not understand there are questions you don't ask a woman on the first exchange?

Obviously, they didn't have my grandmother. Before I was old enough to talk to women other than as a kid on the playground, she made sure I was a gentleman.

Seriously... being a gentleman has gone out of style.

They are uneducated in this regard. Maybe because they didn't had any such experience, or no one taught them. And men mostly lack this inherent quality to understand girls/women.

Because all women are different and generally confusing?

Oh some of us understand that but you have to be raised with principles that teach you how to be a gentleman.

Men stop maturing emotionally when they start masturbating. Hence the lack of empathy and emotional maturity.

Oh they do they just dont care. There is little to no repercussion when you message women online. There is no direct confrontation either. If there was risk of their messages getting out to their peers or something to that affect I guarantee they'd straighten up

Because they dont know the kind of questions you want them to ask and dont want them to ask ......unless you tell them from the onset.

So its important to let guys know the type of questions you are talking about

I haven’t dated in a long time been married for almost 28 years. I probably did not ask that many questions back then. And probably wouldn’t now. We would just talk and figure each other out

they almost certainly do, but I imagine they're relying on crass and or crude to look like bold and they have the notion that might make some people interested.

What questions bother you may not bother another woman. And some guys don't try to discover that difference first before asking questions.

I think most guys that come out of the gate like that probably grew up without fathers / male role models. Not a good excuse, but it’d make sense.

They think with the wrong head.

I seriously wish they all knew😭

Because some women will answer them. Not all women have the same expectations of men, unfortunately.

Depends on a guys personality and character

They are not all the same

Ditto for us women 🥴