Do you think you've been through it ALL just because you divorced or got hurt?

I had a break up once that felt like a divorce. I did not want to start over. My dad died around the same time which was devastating. Then my pet died…. It was a lot for six months and I feel like it changed my whole psychology. I don’t think I’ve been through it “all”. My parents surely had a tougher life but handled it with much more grace.