I Im Shy

I lost my confidence to call a girl pretty. I called a girl beautiful and she ran away from me. I grew up with everyone calling me ugly but when that happened it just did it. And its driving me crazy because i see pretty girls every day and i have to thinj the same thing "too bad im ugly." IM NOT EVEN UGLY IS THE FUNNY PART. i think i look pretty dang good. Someone help me how to get over this.

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goagainsttheflow · 26-30, F

Meditating usually calms me down when I feel worried or shy about something. Then I have the strength to do whatever I need to do because I cleared my mind of all its negativity.

TheletterO · 22-25, M

So i should meditate before talking to a girl idk i might try that.

goagainsttheflow · 26-30, F

@Spiderman23: Yeah! It doesn't have to be a long session. Just long enough for you to calm down and feel ready.

Umile18

Confidence plays a huge part in it.

Know your faults and shortcomings.

Know them. Work with them. Own it.

Don't be too hard on yourself though. You're still young.

You'll grow into it and learn.

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