Why does anyone think a woman wants this as a message from a complete stranger?
How do they not understand the concept of consent and that they are violating it?
Also, all women know, this was a copy paste that was sent to at least 20 women just today, if not more, and not counting all the days before now. What woman in her right mind would be flattered by meaningless scattershot messages? I know some do, but they have to realize, that same message was sent to 20 other woman looking to see who's desperate enough to answer someone's masturbation call.
@FoxyQueen By chance, it's probably written in pattern and lust, but not even knowing he has written before.
But you are right it is a scattershot message to gain attention, while offending someone without thought. I just wish I could explain this is probably not 20 messages sent out verbatim, copy and paste, but the contents will be. And the content is creepy.
@FoxyQueen I'm not even empathizing with him? Wonder where you get that idea? 💙 I do see one thinking I am. If you read my other words, it is about how wrong.
@awildsheepschase these statements make you sound like you are defending him:
it's probably written in pattern and lust, but not even knowing he has written before.
You're telling me he is thoughtfully sending out these messages to each women. Ew. That's just as bad because that means he's literally stalking women to create predatory posts to attempt to convince them to talk to him. That's actually worse.
it is a scattershot message to gain attention,
You have tempered down some pretty predatory behavior with sinple attention seeking, which it is not. You are watering things down drastically.
and I'm defending while empathizing with how wrong?
You have said you are empathizing with how wrong. Wrong what? It just comes off that you are trying to lighten his activities and empathizing with his "need for attention", which isn't what he is after.
So if I have read you incorrectly, I will concur, but that is how what you have said reads to me.
@FoxyQueen I was calling out it's probably not just copy and paste. When you say copy and paste, you actually demean and provoke..
Not even sure why you are down this rabbit hole, as I assure you it is creepy and predatory, and I have my -personal reasons- here why I am not saying more about him, but you can continue being judge and jury for what I won't say.
Some have differing opinions than you while being as compassionate and empathetic, thank you. Continue your judgment of me.
@awildsheepschase Not sure how describing that he is copying and pasting the same message to every woman is demeaning and provoking when it is a truth. That's weird.
Honestly, if I'm honest, it makes me sad to see you feel empathy for him. I habe enjoyed our conversations and have always gotten along. Whether I judge or not is irrelevant. My experience as a woman is what I am working with and why I can't find compassion for him. Having dealt with hundreds of men like him have pretty much solidified my beliefs.
My respects though. I'm glad you haven't had to because you might feel very differently if you had.
@FoxyQueen You assume he copy and pastes. Maybe he does. You haven't provided. For a man that seems like anecedotal evidence from a woman angry with men and thinking all men are the same. So whether you judge or do not, does matter in context. And for record when I said I empathized, maybe I was not clear enough, I emphasized with the woman who was given this in words who did not ask for them, why do you think I brought up unwanted?
