nonsensiclesnail · F
Hard to do in type, in a place such as this. I think the idea that we are complaining is often how it is perceived by the other person and not always the words used. Hard to control another's perception.
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
I think people understand how hard life is at the moment. So i don't suppose anybodys expecting constant positives in casual chat.
Probably best to compartmentalise subjects into brief summaries.
Home.
Work.
Personal.
Plans.
Hopes for the coming year etc
Probably best to compartmentalise subjects into brief summaries.
Home.
Work.
Personal.
Plans.
Hopes for the coming year etc
Spoiledbrat · F
I would just vent. If people can't deal with it that's their problem.
hunkalove · 70-79, M
I always begin with "Well, your mom says--."

SW-User
Complaining is not a thing to always avoid. If it's compulsive that sucks. But sometimes things just needs to be said and doesn't need to be perceived as negative.