I Care About Personality Not Looks

@Tatsumi interesting.

@SW-User Doesn't mean they would love her or want to sleep with her, if she was horrible; also doesn't mean they wouldn't come to love her or wanna sleep with her if she was physically ugly, but wonderful. But, their physical appearance would stay the same, whatever happened. Minus alterations like makeup or clothing or accessories, which might change it.

I get it. I think it's interesting though. I wonder how many men feel the way you do.

@SW-User Virtually all of them. I wonder how many would openly admit it, thereby establishing difference and being unable to show they relate.

I may have to disagree with that until someone takes a poll of virtually all of them. Lol 😉

@Tatsumi that sounds ridiculous

@Tatsumi ill disagree. I think you’re in the minority thankfully. Or at least I’d like to think so

@IrishPat @Stark @SW-User Think what you like.

@IrishPat So, let's clarify this. You can find a utterly ugly woman as physically hot, if she is kind, intelligent, and caring?

@Tatsumi For most people believe it or not attraction goes based on personality it may start off simply based on looks/physical features only but as you get to know the person more that can change which it does for a lot of people including men.

First of all I don’t think ugly is a very nice word to refer to anyone. Secondly, not everyone finds the same things attractive. Some go for looks like you clearly do, while others go for different things, like personality. @Tatsumi

@IrishPat Yes? No?

@IrishPat Well? I know the perfect woman for you, then. Lizzie Valasquez. Dubbed by cruel hearts as "The ugliest woman in the world." She's single and looking. She's kind. She's brave enough to talk on stage in front of a huge crowd.

She's legitimately an amazing person. She has a loving heart. She is feminine. She is delicate, yet strong. She's funny. She's intelligent.

Why do you think it is that she is having so much trouble finding a man?

Yet, in contrast, the ugliest man in the world has had a baby.

Hmmm. Seems kinda strange, don't you think?

@Stark So, would you date a physically ugly janitor who lives in the ghetto and has no friends, if he has a heart of gold?

Please spare me the romanticisms of human nature. We are not so elevated as that.

@Tatsumi You sound shallow. The last guy I showed interest in I actually wasn’t attracted to him at first I simply just gave him a chance to see what would come out of it and I ended up liking him a lot and the more I began to know him l the more attractive I found him to be. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I don’t like people solely based on their appearances. It is what it is. Lol you may, and that’s whatever but that doesn’t mean everyone else is that way.

@Tatsumi That’s the dumbest thing I’ve read today 😂
I agree that an evil person will be sympathised with if they’re good looking but only an absolute loser will stay with a tortuous partner just because they’re attractive

@Tatsumi Also looks fade eventually so if you do decide to go with someone solely based on their looks it’s not something that will be with them forever as to why you need more than just looks to have a successful and healthy relationship.

You yourself sir have a cruel heart even by bringing “the ugliest woman in the world” into the conversation. You should try to look beyond what’s on the surface sometimes. Are you trying to say she is unlovable? Beauty fades with time. Try and remember that and don’t try and box all men into your narrow minded ways of thinking @Tatsumi

@Stark Yep. Because you're a woman. How many men do you find default attractive? 10%? 20%?

Men find 80% of women default attractive. We don't need other things to improve their looks. They're already hot, to us.

Do I sound shallow? Then tell me. Would you date a horribly depressed man? Would you date a man who had severe anxiety? What about an unemployed man, to no fault of his own? What about a man who was shorter than you by a foot?

You could call it shallow. But I guarantee you I would give far more women a chance than you would give men.

@Tatsumi Lol, I’ve had guys speak to me simply because they found me attractive and as they gotten to know me lose interest as to why I’m certain it’s not just a woman’s thing.

@Stark Losing interest and losing attraction are two very different things.

Answer the question. Would you date a guy who was a foot shorter than you?

@Tatsumi yes if I liked them ? What does height have to do with anything 😂? That’s not something serious enough to be a deal breaker.

@Tatsumi you sound exactly like that user dearheart I wonder if you’re the same people 😂

@Stark Oh please, I bet you're just backtracking to cover your personality argument. It's well known that women are generally turned off by short guys.

You're some kind of delusional if you think personality is everything.

Gah. Whatever. Like I said, think whatever you like. I'm not gonna fuckin' school you on the fundamentals of evolutionary psychology.

@Stark Well, you're clearly pretty brain-dead, so that would be a logical conclusion to make, for you.