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How are you at trusting people? Do you still believe there are people out there, even just one, who would care about you for you?

... and not for what they can get from you?
People who won't stab you in the back or take and take from you until you're drained?

I don't trust people. I didn't make the choice in one sitting, no. It's a reaction brought on by how I see them treat people and even myself.

I don't like that people take and take, either ignorant or just ignoring how that one person they spend time with is slowly fading away. I like both parties having a choice and being comfortable to say no. I like respect and mutual trust. I like people sensitive to know when they're sucking the energy out of another.

But most people don't care at all for as long as they get to take what they want. Ego feeding. A listener. Companionship. Comfort. Name it.

But it isn't fair for the other person.

But I still do believe that there are the opposite of energy vampirism, some great ones, true diamonds in the rough still waiting for me to meet them.
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ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
I don't have trust issues but I have reasonable caution. However, I don't have offline friends so might not have a solid opinion on that.
Casheyane · F
@ravenwind43 Antisocial by circumstance or by choice?
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
@Casheyane I'm not antisocial. It's just become that way. I would like to be much more social.
Casheyane · F
@ravenwind43 Ah. I'm not judging or anything like. Simply curious. Yeah, life just happens to you sometimes.

In a way, I guess me too. It'd be nice to hang out with people, but you don't easily meet someone who you could be yourself with.
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
@Casheyane I didn't take it as judging so don't worry. I think mostly my current life situation just doesn't give me a lot of free time. I suppose I could make more time but I just get busy with other things.