If others break you or damage us can we expect them to heal us?
Nah, doesn't work like way. We end up cleaning the mess that others create in us.
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WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
the best way for them to help us heal is just to stay away from us, so we can get on with our life. the last time i had someone do me wrong was 20 years ago. a few years after that, i was in a good relationship and she wanted to hook back up......... im like, nah, thanks but no thanks. LOL
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@YourMomsSecretCrush
the best way for them to help us heal is just to stay away from us,
true
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@SW-User Good people can guide you, tide you over and all of that. But if one doesn't really do the work themselves, or have the real will to heal, they won't.
Think about all the people who keep returning to the same patterns after taking endless advice. They lack the will to do something about it.
And even for myself, until I was really willing to look within and do something about it, I was just riding the surface and no one could have helped me in a lasting way.
Think about all the people who keep returning to the same patterns after taking endless advice. They lack the will to do something about it.
And even for myself, until I was really willing to look within and do something about it, I was just riding the surface and no one could have helped me in a lasting way.
BeefySenpie · M
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@BeefySenpie I used to think they could 😐 like they would care about me and would try to sort things out. Naive
BeefySenpie · M
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@BeefySenpie yeah usually not, Idk I used to think that people simply made mistakes but would want to sort things out, and keep growing together. Well maybe just with real love
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@SW-User well I've messed up a couple times setting myself in situations or people I knew wouldn't go right but other times I had no idea they'd change... Or betray me like they did
I think we only sort out the mess that we allowed others to create in us.
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@Ozymandiaz it's not completely like that because some people are good deceivers. How can you know they would end up like that. But yeah if you already know and you let them that's different
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Nope ...
No one can break you ...if you choose to not let them
Rise up and fight
No one can break you ...if you choose to not let them
Rise up and fight
wildbill83 · 41-45, M
no, I expect them to die screaming when they're the victim...🤔
People do to us what we let them do
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@metaldog not necessarily, you don't know when someone will be a good deciever or if they will betray you, not everything is just so white and black
@SW-User that's true but we always have the power to learn and grow strong
