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Second chances?

Do you believe in giving people second chances even if they had broken you in the past?
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
I was given a second chance. People can change. Things can always improve.
Joy2003 · 18-21, M
@Keepitsimple The answer I was hoping for. Ty
Scribbles · 36-40, F
If they "broke" me, they will not get second chances. You do not fully forgive or forget a thing like that. They can have their second chance without me involved at all. Good luck with them improving themselves, but I want out. 😤

If they simply are a dickhead or wrong me in some minor way,I believe in second chances.
Magenta · F
Yes I do and more. We are humans not robots.
No-one can break us that we don't allow them to.
Joy2003 · 18-21, M
@Magenta Very true
thepreposterouspanda · 31-35, M
Depends on what had happened. I'm not overly inclined to at this point though, no.
Generally I do .. kinda tired of folks wasting that right now

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Yes, bc no one sees the same goal
Joy2003 · 18-21, M
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
Probably -- I can be a pushover for people I care about. :(
SW-User
Sure. Wouldn't we want that for ourselves if we fycked up.
Don't know what you mean by broken you. That's a lotta power to give someone over you.
Fairydust · F
I did and regretted it.

I only did it for them and not me.
Fairydust · F
@Joy2003 yeah it was very hard, I’d already made my mind up but they seemed genuinely sorry, promised to change, it didn’t last long.

Just prolonged the final break up.
Joy2003 · 18-21, M
@Fairydust But you won't regret about not giving them a chance right? It eventually made things clear for you
Fairydust · F
@Joy2003 yeah 💯 made me realise he would never change, can’t change and I’d never again give another chance, I gave too many over the years, it was his last chance.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
No. You moved on, I did too. I’m too old to waste time on second chances.
Joy2003 · 18-21, M
@Adogslife What if someone can't move on?
Adogslife · 61-69, M
@Joy2003 There’s no such thing. You’re capable of anything, including finding a replacement.
RebelFox · 36-40, F
RebelFox · 36-40, F
@Joy2003 I wouldn’t expect it
Joy2003 · 18-21, M
@RebelFox And that wouldn't bother you even a bit?
RebelFox · 36-40, F
@Joy2003 not after what I’ve lived through
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