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I Am A Nerd

I am, and always have been, a NERD. I probably have a big chunk of OCD - though manageable - thrown in the mix as well.

I have always counted. I used to count the steps taken to my classes - including law school - from my apartment in college - and back again; I count the number of seconds that I shampoo and then rince my hair and body; I used to count - while driving for 40 years as a mover/truck driver - the number of short white lines separating lanes, or the number of reflector posts per mile; I still count - after living in the same house for 18 years - the number of steps up to our front porch or the number of steps to the basement EVERY time that I go up or down them; I count everything!

I have always loved museums - especially science, math, or natural history ones - to the exclusion of all other attractions. My cousin - a female Nerd - and I used to spend the day at the Center of Science and Industry in Columbus , Ohio, while her sister and my sister (nine days different in age) were shopping at Westland Mall or downtown at Lazarus.

We were NERDS; they were SHOPPERS!

By the way, do you know what CDO is. That is a person whose OCD is so bad that they have to alphabetize it!

I gave gotten to age 66 - will be 67 in 2 months and 25 days - with my OCD and Nerd behavior - as my constant companions. I have taught high school in Costa Rica, attended the University of Kentucky law school, and have worked 40 years as truck driver with them by my side.


I believe that I can keep it - them - all under control - the mantra term for both OCD folks and Nerds - for a few more years.

As a Nerd, I always sign my username to my posts ir comments. It's not just that I want to; I have to!

Quakertrucker
SW-User
I hear you but I麓m sure deep inside you there is a man who can enjoy a woman麓s teasing and seducing...forgetting about counting amnything but the hours spent together...馃槈
Quakertrucker70-79, M
@SW-User

I doubt that a woman's teasing and seduction would turn me from my normal path - and not because of the Nerd and OCD behavior - or possibly because of it; You decide!

I went on my first date at age 26; had a one-night stand at age 27 that I have always regretted because it was based on lust rather than marriage; was married from age 30 to age 44; and have been married from age 47 to the present age of 66 - almost 67.

I don't know if I was not interested in pursuing the opposite sex because of my Nerdish behavior or from some strict sense of morality; or whether women were dissuaded from pursuing me because of the OCD/NERD factor.

I have never looked at women other than my wives - yes, I would notice other women - but they just wouldn't interest me.

So, in your opinion, am I just a strong believer in the sanctity of love and marriage,or is my NERD nature truly to blame - or, on the other hand, to thank - for making me who I am.

I would really appreciate hearing your thoughts.

Quakertrucker
SW-User
@Quakertrucker I cant and wouldnt risk an opinion not knowing you...my comment just aimed at putting a smile on your face.
Quakertrucker70-79, M
@SW-User

It did!

Quakertrucker

 
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