Why is it considered socially acceptable for a woman to say I want a man six foot tall, with big d and abs

@caccoon Of course there's bullshit from both men and women, no need to take sides. What I'm saying is basically why society doesn't care when the victim is men?

Also, sorry I didn't get your first part, what do you mean certain things are already expected? So if men are assumed to generally expect something from women that means it's okay for women to be publicly very vocal about their very detailed body expectations even if men don't even mention their expectations?

@SW-User does society really care about anyone, regardless of gender or race?

Yes. Have you paid attention to advertisement and media since forever? How often are men sexualized vs. women, and what are the expectations?

To what extent do you think these ideals affect men (attracted to women)?

@caccoon it does to some level for sure..

Sorry I think you're drifting away to another topic

@SW-User it's all related.

@caccoon Maybe.. society can be shitty to everyone...

@SW-User I could be wrong, but I am just saying men have these brainwashed expectations.

We're all, to a large extent, unaware.

But obviously women have cottoned on to being overly sexualized and expected to be whatever. I think it's fine for them to ask for what they want. At least they're being straightforward about it.

I see men doing the same thing. If I meet them in real life, I avoid them. If I see them on a dating app, I avoid them. It's just funny.

@caccoon cute little caccoon :)