I'm a Loner Most of the Time

I often feel like being an INFJ is what makes me a loner. I can only deeply connect with certain types of people. I think only other INFJ's can understand this frustration. Its difficult enough to know that this is the rarest personality type in the world. I don't know if any one else here can relate or not, but I just wanted to get it off my chest.

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TerriME · 36-40, F

I am also an INFJ. I try to be a good friend to everyone, but you're only a best friend if I really feel a connection to you on a personal level. I'm horrible at parties because I don't do small talk. I don't see the point. A lot of people think I'm being rude, but I just don't do small talk well. But if you get me talking about religion, politics, mental health, or something of substance, I can really, really talk!