I'm a Loner Most of the Time

I often feel like being an INFJ is what makes me a loner. I can only deeply connect with certain types of people. I think only other INFJ's can understand this frustration. Its difficult enough to know that this is the rarest personality type in the world. I don't know if any one else here can relate or not, but I just wanted to get it off my chest.

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BlueDiver · 41-45, M

It can make a difference how strong your I, N, F, and J are - I know for me, my F/T are almost right in the middle, my N is moderately strong, and my I and P are super strong. I'm an INFP/INTP, and I had a friend once who was a strong INFJ - she read somewhere that IN people with a strong J come off as introverted in extroverted situations, and that IN people with a strong P come off as extroverted in extroverted situations.