I Am A Female - Intj, This Is The Rarest Personality Type

Using the research I've seen I dislike a lot about my personality type. I realize there is a lot of work to be done on ex<x>pression. I've never been very good at expressing my emotions outwardly.
That feels ridiculous and frustrating. Like I'm less of a person or something.
There are lots of good things about it to though. It's just so isolating. I feel like I work against myself.
Hopefully one day I'll get myself together and figured out.