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Sylphrena · 31-35
I'm 32, and I've noticed such a drastic change over the years. I've struggled with social anxiety my whole life. In the past I was able to manage it by forcing myself to be social with strangers. People were generally happy to have a random conversation with a stranger. Now, when I try to strike up a conversation it kinda falls flat. Everyone seems so stand-off-ish now. Sometimes I wonder if it is a "me" problem, but it seems like its affecting so many others as well.
@Sylphrena it's definitely not a you problem. I find being kind and respectful to people makes them standoffish and I don't trust that. They have the problem.