What is your most annoying trait ?

I become indifferent after wasting alot of time caring about whatever it is

And yours is ?

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bijouxbroussard · F

I hold grudges. I try not to, but even when I forgive, I forget nothing.

SW-User

@bijouxbroussard I imagine letting go of those grudges would help you. I hardly hold a grudge, or even feel hurt, from how my once girlfriend hurt me at my most intimacy. She wanted me to perform with my tongue how the one she had an affair with did... Sometimes you just learn, grudges are such a thing where they are harming you.

bijouxbroussard · F

@SW-User Well, I acknowledge that it’s not a positive trait…but I feel the way I feel. 🥺

SW-User

@bijouxbroussard I do understand, I was reframing things because a lot is said these days in ways people knew how to give. It takes time and healing to forgive who has hurt you.