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Eidolon · M
Be present.
Sounds simple enough, but we tend to be fickle, easily distracted, thoughts elsewhere.
So its like a muscle we need to exercise.
At first, it may need some personal commitment, for example... when i talk to this person, im going to fully concentrate and connect with their every word, their body language, their eyes, their facial expressions. Im going to subtly make then a 'study'.
Keep doing that, and eventually it would become a force of habit, and natural. You wont have to make any prior commitment or need reminders.
Sounds simple enough, but we tend to be fickle, easily distracted, thoughts elsewhere.
So its like a muscle we need to exercise.
At first, it may need some personal commitment, for example... when i talk to this person, im going to fully concentrate and connect with their every word, their body language, their eyes, their facial expressions. Im going to subtly make then a 'study'.
Keep doing that, and eventually it would become a force of habit, and natural. You wont have to make any prior commitment or need reminders.