Would you help an Ex that abandoned you???

Empath should not equal doormat!

If you help them and they backstab, what would you do then? Better be safe

Nope. I would treat him just like he did me. I dont even remember his name.

So but stop being a door mat he is a ex for a reason move on and if he cannot well make sure you can do not be suck into his trap. By helping him you are showing you still care for him otherwise you would leave him in the past. Yes you for gave him but why live through that again. You have moved on leave it at that. I your mind it's over but in his mind he may think that Oh she wants to get back together.

He's an ex for a reason. Unless children are involved block and move on.

I wudn't walk away and do nothing. I wud do something. But I'd be careful to limit anything to keeping my distance and not getting involved. If I did nothing, then I'd be upset with myself and then I'd be unhappy

No
Fuck that .

Yes, I would help him.
But not at the expense of my wellbeing. So if I am not healed, I would let myself heal first.
Then he is a human I care for, even if we are not together.

it's an opportunity. Be the financier and draft a commercial contract .. Just stake your claim on all his property / make him work for you.

Ask me.. if you want ideas.

Ehh I’ve helped exes who were in crisis, but I made it clear that afterward they needed to figure out supports elsewhere.

Hell no. I'm an empath but I don't sympathize with idiots. I can feel their toxic energy and see the colour of their aura. Red. As in 🚩

Nope. Not in a million years. If they were on fire, I wouldn't even piss on them to save them

that uncomfortable feeling goes away with practice, saying [i]hell no[/i]

most people are hardwired to be empathic, unless you're a psychopath but they are rare.

Nope. Wouldn't lift a finger.

It is foolish to test someone twice.

No sounds like he is only using you

Nah im too vindictive.

No

No, I’d definitely keep my distance and let him sort it out for himself. You owe him [b]nothing[/b].

Or as I was once told,
"Ne laisse pas l'empathie te rendre stupide !"

I don’t have an ex but I would help anyone in their time of need empathy is a beautiful attribute don’t ever lose it 🎀

Block all contact with him. F**k him.

No, she knew what I went through to be with her, she cost me my Dad's side of the family, then stabbed me in the back.